Most of my posts this month have been about finding your life path and having the courage to follow it. One of my favorite authors and poet David White writes about this here:
One of the great temptations of human existence is to base your life on contingency. That you will actually take the courageous step once all the conditions are absolutely and utterly right for you. When you have the right boss, when you have the right job, when the car payments have been made, when the kids are through college, when you’re on your deathbed. When you’re dead. It would be certainly easier then.
The thought is that if only I can control the climate of my existence and get the temperature exactly right, then when I’m completely comfortable, and have a sense of freedom, and a sense that I’m not beholden to anything, then I’ll take a courageous step in my life. Of course, these conditions almost never come. — David Whyte