A few weeks ago, I had a conversation that stayed with me.
I spoke with a woman who had been unemployed for more than three years.
Most of that time, she told me, she had spent worrying about her future.
She worried about what would happen next.
She applied for jobs.
She worried some more.
She applied for more jobs.
Slowly, she began to feel useless.
“I could have learned a new profession during those years,” she said. “I could have written a book, learned a new language, and enjoyed life. Instead, I drove myself nuts obsessing about my future.”
Part of the problem, she explained, was that she didn’t know what she truly wanted to do.
Going back to another full-time position didn’t excite her. What she secretly longed for was starting a business of her own. But after years in a tiresome job, she felt disconnected from her talents and unsure what direction to take.
The joy had drained out of her work life.
I told her that if she was interested, I could help her gain clarity about what she wanted and support her in creating a project she would truly enjoy — something she could grow step by step into a business of her own.
“How much do you charge?” she asked.
I explained the different coaching options and my fees.
“Nah,” she said after a moment. “That’s more than I can afford right now.”
So I asked her a question.
“If we had spoken three years ago, before all the worrying, the confusion, and the frustration, would it have been worth it to discover your passion and create a life that excites you?”
She thought for a moment.
“No,” she replied, “probably not.”
The Cost of Waiting
That conversation stayed with me.
Not because she declined the coaching — that happens. But because it reminded me how easily we postpone our lives. We wait until we feel ready, until circumstances improve, until we have more clarity, more money, or more confidence.
Meanwhile, time passes.
Sometimes the most important decision we make is simply this:
to stop postponing our lives.
The Decision That Changed My Life
Many years ago, I made a big commitment to myself.
I enrolled in a four-year training program that set me on a completely new path. It was a top-notch program,
and it was expensive enough to scare me.
It also changed my life.
Completely.
Because of that decision, I went from being a stay-at-home mom to building a global business, traveling the world, and working with people everywhere. I began living my dream while helping others fulfill theirs.
Do I regret spending that money on my education?
Not one cent.
Of course, life would have unfolded one way or another. I might still have found my path eventually.
But I am incredibly grateful that I chose to invest in myself when I did.
A Question for You
Have you ever made a bold commitment to yourself and your future?
Did you leap — investing time, energy, or resources into becoming who you truly wanted to be?
And if you did…
Did it change your life? If you’d like to share your thoughts, feel free to write to me. I always love hearing from my readers.
With love,
Karin
If This Spoke to You
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What It Takes to Create a Better Life
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Each of these explores another part of the same journey: listening to what calls you, trusting yourself enough to begin, and choosing not to postpone your life.